By: Daniel Otero
Galvanizing are those with attitudes, described as: rebels, loners, pathfinders in their own right, unstable, selfish, unorthodox leaders whom are too wild to control.
Those are the males who have that something-something which drive the girls crazy.
Risk takers… Bad boys enjoy breaking the rules when they can, if they can. They stand by themselves doing what most people wouldn’t dare.
Driving females to the edge of madness and making them do things they wouldn’t dream of doing. Reminds me of the old music videos, when the girls and women are hysterically screaming and crying for the bad-boy rock stars on stage.
A bad boy wants to break from the conventional pack. These cool dudes are the ones dressed in leather, running as the alpha male [leader] of the pack or gang getting their fill selfishly. It always reminds me of Marlon Brando in his famous motorcycle-gang movie, “The Wild Ones”.
A bad boy excites girls, making them have feelings they never thought they had before. Making them [the females] do things they believed they would never do.
Why do good girls love bad boys? Some say it’s in the science, something to do with hormones and like the addictive need for dopamine, bad boys are hypnotic. It’s more like, the desire to follow the wild boy. And like kicking a drug habit, if the bad boy is not dependable after a while, his charms will start to wear-off on the female.
Bad boys know better and use their ‘power’ to control, manipulate and charm others into getting what they want. Whether it’s good or bad!
A bad boy avoids being pegged as a ‘square’ or just another boring guy.
He wants to be above everybody in personality, the standout, a showoff.
From the way he dresses to the way he wears his trousers or shoes.
While a female is in love with a bad boy, she’s literally ‘eating out of his hand’. He’s having a ‘mind control’ over her!
That’s why I say, good girls love bad boys.
And while some males and females in China deny this fact! Few know the reality… To be in love with a bad boy is dangerous but exciting!
On one hand, bad boys can be emotionally ‘crazy’, aggressive, confrontational and without control when they want something badly. On the other hand, they can be extremely brave at a moments notice. A bad boy prefers action rather than words. They exude this dark-sexy confidence which most wish they could have.
For this reason, I’ll choose to be the eternal bad boy. I just love it! Of course, this bad boy was converted years ago into a good boy.
Carpe diem, seize the day and live for another; while conquering hearts and getting what they all want! That is, being part of an exclusive club which most envy and deep-down inside want to be a part of.